For children ages 3 to 6

Job 4

Explanation and Bible story for toddlers and preschoolers (ages 3-6)

2 min read · Updated August 8, 2026
By Jasper & Review team
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By Jasper & Review team

The Explanation

Job was very sad. So very sad. Everything had gone wrong for him. His children were gone. His animals were gone. And Job himself was sick, all over his body. He sat on the ground and cried.

Then three friends came to sit with Job. One of them was called Eliphaz. That is a funny name, isn't it? Eliphaz looked at Job. And Eliphaz began to talk.

"Job," said Eliphaz, "may I say something? You have always helped other people. When someone was sad, you said kind words. When someone was tired, you helped him stand up again. You were so strong for other people."

Eliphaz looked at Job again. Job just sat there. Quiet and sad.

"But now, Job," said Eliphaz, "now something bad has happened to you. And now you are sad. Now you are the one who cannot go on."

Then Eliphaz said something strange. He said, "Job, I think this is your own fault. God only makes bad people sad. So you must have done something wrong."

But that was not true. Job had not done anything wrong. Eliphaz thought he knew what God was thinking. But he did not know it at all.

What Does This Mean?

Sometimes people say things that are not true. Even when they mean well. Eliphaz thought he was helping Job. But his words did not help. His words made Job even sadder.

Job needed a friend to sit next to him. Quietly. Not a friend with hard words.

The Common Thread

Job was sad and alone. His friends did not really understand him.

Later, a very long time later, Jesus came. Jesus knows exactly how Job felt. Because Jesus was also sad sometimes. Jesus cried too. And Jesus never says wrong things. Jesus knows just what you need.

When you are sad, Jesus is close. He does not say, "It is your own fault." He says, "Come to Me. I am with you."

For You

Do you know someone who is sad? Maybe at daycare, or at school, or at home? You do not always have to say something. You can just sit next to that person. You can give a hug. You can hold a hand.

That is what Jesus does too. He sits close to you when you are sad. Very close.

And if you are sad yourself sometimes, then you may know it. Jesus sees you. He does not think you are naughty. He loves you.

Talk About It

What do you do when someone is sad? Do you know something kind you can do?

Are you sometimes sad too? What helps then?

Praying Together

Dear Lord Jesus,

Thank You that You see me. Also when I am sad. Help me to be kind. When someone else cries. And thank You that You are always close.

Amen.

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Questions about Job 4

Short answers for anyone reading about this for the first time.

What is Job 4 about?
Job was very sad. So very sad. Everything had gone wrong for him. His children were gone. His animals were gone. And Job himself was sick, all over his body. He sat on the ground and cried.
What does Job 4 say?
"Job," said Eliphaz, "may I say something? You have always helped other people. When someone was sad, you said kind words. When someone was tired, you helped him stand up again. You were so strong for other people."
What does Job 4 teach us about God?
Then Eliphaz said something strange. He said, "Job, I think this is your own fault. God only makes bad people sad. So you must have done something wrong."
What can toddlers learn from Job 4?
Sometimes people say things that are not true. Even when they mean well. Eliphaz thought he was helping Job. But his words did not help. His words made Job even sadder.
Why is Job 4 an important Bible story?
When you are sad, Jesus is close. He does not say, "It is your own fault." He says, "Come to Me. I am with you."

What others discovered

Insight Editorial on verse 11

The old lion perishes for lack of prey. The cubs of the lioness are scattered abroad." Eliphaz says this to a man who buried ten children last week. His theology is tidy. His timing is cruel. Be careful with the true things you say to grieving people. Truth spoken without tears can wound like a lie.

— Faith.Network Editorial
Insight Editorial on verse 19

Eliphaz speaks of those "who dwell in houses of clay, whose foundation is in the dust, who are crushed before the moth!" His words sound wise, and there is truth in them. We are fragile. Yet he uses this truth to accuse a suffering friend. Be careful. Real theology, spoken without love, can crush the very people God is holding.

— Faith.Network Editorial

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